Love vs. Career
If you ever have to choose between love or career, always find a way to choose both. Because if you don’t start creating a balance between both now, it may soon be marriage vs career and then family vs career. The priorities in life in which you will succeed are the ones you make time for now. This choice comes irrespective of your gender, and it is completely okay for this to happen. It could be a case of a long-distance relationship or even to step back from the relationship if the situation demands so. Remember, the person who truly loves you will never stop you from growing and being happy and successful in your career and other goals. Your career, money, car, etc. cannot love you back. It may break your heart to make such bold moves, but if it is for a happy future of you both, it is worth it.
When choosing and making a decision, always keep in mind that it is your decision and you can never blame the other person for this. Choose wisely and stick to it. If you choose your career, you will have to let go of those cuddles in the cold winter nights; and if you choose your relationship, you will have to let go of the job you’ve always wanted.
There might be times when you want both. The best way here is to talk to your other half. Talk and try to make things work between both of you. If you are the one who is being talked to, listen without any bias and understand how important you are to the person talking to you. Remember, a compromise on a few things is far better than separation.
Both are important, so be ready to choose a way that gives you the option to pursue love and your career. If that’s not possible, choose the one you love more and make sure you love your choice and have no regrets.