Growing Your Self-Confidence And Feeling Empowered: Yes It’s Possible
Self-confidence and feeling empowered are actually more simple than you would think. For a woman to feel those things it can actually be quite the amazing feeling,but on the outside to others, it can be threatening. It never should be that, every woman has the right to feel her absolute best and to believe that they can and will achieve anything they put their mind to. But it can often start with a confidence thing and to feel empowered in your own body.
We don’t invest enough time in ourselves I feel. The time where you can really nurture these aspects in order to feel better and to improve your lifestyle. You may feel like there are obstacles along the way. Things stopping you feeling confident in your life, with your friends, your relationships or your career. Or to feel confident and empowered in all of them. I wanted to share with you some of the ways you can grow your confidence and feel empowered. I hope it gives you the push you need to invest in yourself.
Your friends and inner circle are important
Sometimes it is the people around us that make the biggest difference in our lives. They are the ones that build us up when we feel down, remind us of our amazing qualities and are there to lend a shoulder to cry on when things get tough. Your friends and your inner circle know you, however, if you find that you are don’t have the right group of friends in your life then you need to take action. Negative influences and people that don’t make you feel good are only going to eat away at your confidence levels and how you feel about yourself. This is when finding like minded people is so important. These days, thanks to the internet you can really engage and connect with people that are on the same page as you. Whether that is a focus on your sexuality and looking into things like lesbian facebook, or simply using platforms like Instagram to find people with similar hobbies or interests as you. The options are endless and if you use it right, the internet can help you build that essential support network you need.
Building on your romantic relationships
You also need to take the time to place some focus on any romantic relationships you have. Just as your friends and inner circle will build you up and support you, your partner needs to be doing this, of not more so. A relationship is built on trust and having that connection you just don't have with anyone else. They are your biggest supporter as you are of them, and they are the ones that can really build up your confidence and to help you feel as empowered as you want to feel.
Having the belief in yourself
However, we can’t rely solely on other people. We need to have the belief in ourselves to make it happen. You need to spend time being your own champion. Reminding yourself of the skills you do have and the attributes you can offer in the various difference situations you may be faced with. It can start with you, and if you believe in yourself then others will follow suit. If you are struggling with this mindset then the next two points could help you get on track.
Creating a vision board to help you visualise
Ever heard of the secret? This is based on the law of attraction that what you think about and dream about will essentially become your reality, if you believe it to be so. Part of the secret is creating a vision board and if you don't feel totally on board with the concept, a vision board can still be a great thing to do to help you visualise what you want from your life. The board is created with things you want to become your reality. Driving a specific car, doing a particular job, a house, a certain amount of money, holidays, clothes, you name it, but what you are creating on this board is the life you want to live. Looking at it each day will help you to visualise it and make it your reality.
Working on your mindset and positive thinking
Finally, your mindset is your biggest asset and if you are not thinking positively than you could be your own worst enemy. It may feel forced at first, but positive thinking and changing your outlook, even if you are faking it right now, will start to make a big difference to your life. Your confidence will grow and so will that feeling of empowerment.
I hope that some of these tips will help you grow you self-confidence and feel empowered in your life.